Keys to a sustainable marriage – Addressing Concerns of the Younger Generation

Many conversations were held, and concerns raised by current and former Kedar Members, around marriage sustainability. “Marrying is easy”, the younger members say, but sustaining a marriage is what is difficult – an issue that concerns them.

Throughout Kedar’s history, our team has come across certain common themes that make a marriage successful. We decided to share them with you. They are simple, yet effective.

In addition to horoscope matching, which if done properly is a good tool, there are certain basic behavioral issues that are absolute for a marriage to sustain -

(1) Mutual Respect

(2) Willingness to make a sacrifice (personal or professional when needed)

(3) Expression of Confidence in each other

(4) Flexibility of character – willingness to adjust

(5) Daily communication

On the other hand, issues that Kedar’s team has come across in many conversations, and those that need to be immediately addressed post marriage are -

(1) Not understanding each other’s needs

(2) Too much expectations from our partners

(3) Constant insecurity

(4) Arrogance

(5) Trying to not address situations in life head on.

Kedar’s Blog is a means to address many such questions that we come across in our client conversations. This was one such topic that many youngsters at our events have spoken about. Our effort is to raise such issues and give our members food for thought.